I say let him be whatever makes him happy!!
I know there are quite a few of us who like to pick and chose what they want a character to be or not be, regardless of whether it is canon or not. But I (even though it may sound silly since he is a ‘fictional character’ and therefore anything said about him can be interpreted as true or false since he cannot vocally disagree) believe it isn’t my place to judge not only him but anyone else who chooses to have a certain perspective on gender identity.
If that is something he wouldn’t “give a fuck about” then go right ahead and don’t give a fuck about it.
And aside from that, who would I be to say that I love him only when he is a certain way? That’s why I never come up with those fun “bencanons” because…I just don’t want to put words in his mouth.
I fell in love with the Ben that was presented to me.
If this were to be another aspect of the way he presents himself, great ♡
xcatxgirlx 